Thursday, July 4, 2013

New Rules and Owner likes a red bottom

 
 
 
This pictures says a thousand words! 
I think most husbands, once they embrace the DD, TTWD, D/s Lifestyle enjoy seeing our bottoms RED!   The might not like having to do it, but I think they do like judging the color and looking at their "handy" work. 
 
 
 
Whatever the reason, be it because of displeasure, not obeying, back talking, or simply just because they want to,  knowing that it will keep the marriage strong and reminder of who has authority and who is in control they find enjoyment from it in that respect.
 
 
My owner finally put together a new list of rules. 
Not going to be fun!
 
I already know I'm in trouble for today. 
 
As much as I hate it, find it embarrassing, and yet at the same time find it a turn on, (which is embarrassing alone)  I KNOW its needed.  For some reason my body, my brain needs it.  I need the accountability,  someone who is not afraid to stand up to me,  someone is not afraid to say "Ok, get up and go to the closet" for no reason at all and blister my rear!  In my brain it resets me, it is a stress relief, and sometimes I feel like the pain that I feel when I'm being spanked is what gives me that relief!  I think it takes my mind off of things that is bothering me when I'm on overload.
 
DD, TTWD, D/s lifestyle is a wonderful way for us.
 
So while I get what I need (even when I'm trying to talk him out of spanking me) I feel owner gets satisfaction for one spanking me and watching my butt turn red, (when we first started I don't think he liked it that much but as he has fully embraced it, I see it in him) and  two the results that come out of our lifestyle.
 
~Jane DDLearning
 
 

12 comments:

  1. New list of rules? Can you share?

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    1. I will share next week because they are changing again. Our schedule has changed and he is expecting certain chores done......plus we figured out that we are not only dd but also a leaning towards D/s....

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  2. Jane I agree they like admiring their work. Vic didn't at first either but as time passes and we embrace Dd more he truly does.

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    1. Oh yes! Owner is the same way! At first he was afraid to touch me and now he has the wooden spoon, hair brush, and then a thick spoon that hurts like no other!! I can't be still when he gets to that part of discipline!! He actually said last night that he likes seeing my butt red! LOL. I would have never thought he would say those words!

      -Jane

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  3. We don't have rules, but I have to agree that a red bot seems to fascinate Starman as well as turn him on. He tends to compare degrees of redness from one spanking to another. This morning after a particularly difficult disciplinary spanking, he told me he could cook a steak on my rear, and was happily 'fanning' my poor bruised bottom with the paddle. LOL! It certainly got rid of my attitude in a hurry!

    Hugs

    Ami

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    1. LOL. That is a funny story!! :) DD is an amazing thing between a couple!

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  4. I get turned on by the "admiring their work" thing... love your posts!

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    1. Thank you! I try to share my thoughts in inner feelings here because we don't let anyone (not that we are ashamed of it) know our lifestyle because its not the "normal" for couples. It's sad because when husbands did discipline their wives there were a lot less divorces. The owner/HOH kept the family in order and his wife assisted in making it run the way he wanted it, Things just went better, but since its now not tolerated and women don't think they need to be in submission families have broken down and the men don't get the respect they deserve. Thank you for liking my post Renee!!! It makes me feel like I'm doing the right thing by posting here.
      ~Jane

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  5. Yes, most husband's who are into 'domestic discipline'. by spanking their every loving wives. Likes to see their wives with blushing red bare bottoms. Yes, they crave, adore, exhilarate, pride themselves, that they have accomplished painting with their hand, paddle, hairbrush, birchrod, cane or whip a painful masterpiece upon their spouses naked rear end, the color RED. And if you love your husband, you will allow him this sexual erotic satisfaction.

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    1. I do allow it! In fact I have given up my right in our "contract" to back out of it. If I ever threaten him that he is not allowed to spank me or discipline me, he is allowed to take me ASAP, even by force if need be, and wear my butt out.

      I knew husbands must like it and he told me that last night that he likes seeing my butt red, he said it shows his love for me and us. I told him to tell my butt that in a kind and laughing way.

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    2. I do see how it can make a man feel respected havin his wife's rear there exposed for him to spank or standing naked and knowing that he has full control to make her do what she is told of she gets a beating. (Never,ever, violent!!) I'm sure it gives him pride. As women it makes us feel softer, and submissive and feminine..... So it works for the entire family.

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  6. Spanking is probably the ultimate ice breaker in a relationship. The woman gets to feel how the man handles power. The man gets to see the woman at her most vulnerable. Because there is no way, especially for the woman to fake her responses, they literally get to know each other.

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