tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568310946915828796.post8071832774542814028..comments2023-07-07T01:59:22.013-07:00Comments on DDLearninginlove - Trying to live a 1950s married life!: Last night was...ummm... a bit different.....Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04170952226486458305noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568310946915828796.post-72414107484061908022016-12-25T17:14:50.217-08:002016-12-25T17:14:50.217-08:00i am amazed by how great your husband is at this. ...i am amazed by how great your husband is at this. my hoh does not want to do it. he says it is stupid to have to spank me like a child, that i should be responsible and do what i am supposed to do. ok well i have ADHD so i have a lot of issues that are not so easy to just get over or change. i am also pre menopausal and very emotional, insecure, have anxiety and depression, and i have no positive coping skills, poor short term memory, horrible time management skills, and i am not good at being submissive. i want to be submissive though, and to be respectful, obedient, honest, and good to my hoh. he is a good man and loves me, just doesnt understand me. i have gotten a few spankings from him but far spaced out and have to really beg for one. i really need one like twice a week to keep me from being controlling, cranky, and procrastinating so much. i don't understand why this seems so hard for him. it makes me feel like i am just not worth his time. :-( when we discuss it and he says why should he do it because there is nothing in it for him...i want to explode. that makes me sooo angry, frustrated, hurt, and lost. i don't know what to do. i cant just forget about it now. i really really want this to help me stay focused, feel loved and secure, and to learn to let my hoh lead. Queen Victoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15998054150789730663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568310946915828796.post-70856022663198116842013-03-06T07:45:51.339-08:002013-03-06T07:45:51.339-08:00It is amazin!!!!! Who would have thought????? Wo...It is amazin!!!!! Who would have thought????? Wow! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04170952226486458305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-568310946915828796.post-46932820487441373482013-03-04T13:21:58.994-08:002013-03-04T13:21:58.994-08:00Interesting how a spanking can ground you and just...Interesting how a spanking can ground you and just make you feel better. And definitely closer to your HOH. Glad yours is taking so well to the program. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02993986107301053165noreply@blogger.com